That’s the advice and strategy I received before I headed into a local community college in the northwest suburbs of Chicago to take my ACT.
My father said those words to me as he dropped me off.
I know my dad – this was not his normal supportive dad advice.
I am sure I was having a typical 16-year-old snotty teen girl day. Quite sure I was also running late.
The point is, I was not coddled.
I walked in scared to death.
My parents didn’t have the money to bribe proctors — and I’m 100% sure they wouldn’t have even if they had the cash.
I didn’t get a car as a 16-year old birthday present.
They didn’t sell my Girl Scout cookies for me so I could be the state winner.
They wanted us to be self-sufficient. To earn what we got.
I took the ACT once.
It wasn’t my sister’s perfect score, but it was enough to get me into the schools I applied to in 1993.
Even back then, it was a helluva competition.
It’s obviously worse now… and I have no idea what it will be like when my daughter goes to college in 18 years.
The news this week about the college admissions scheme is alarming – but definitely not shocking.
When it first broke, I shared the headline on Twitter but gave the moms in the center of the story the benefit of the doubt. I thought, maybe they didn’t know? Maybe Felicity Huffman and Lori Loughlin paid this guy — and said, get my child in — and that was that.
I thought they possibly didn’t know the tactics taken by William Singer, the head of the college preparatory business and founder of the charity who is identified now as “cooperating witness 1.”
Hours later, as more information was released, we learned from the New York Times that Huffman and William H. Macy knew this college prep coach would “arrange for their daughter’s SAT proctor to secretly correct her wrong answers and boost her score.” And that, “Huffman and her spouse agreed to the plan.”
Earlier this year, in an interview with Macy in Parade Magazine, he said, “we’re in the thick of college application time, which is so stressful.”
That, I can relate to. Not the bribing part.
Parents track me down on LinkedIn sometimes to help their teenaged and 20-something children get into prized college internships and med schools.
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